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At the same stress level, families raising an autistic child scored higher on resilience
A University of Kentucky team compared families in post-COVID National Survey of Children's Health data and found that among families reporting similar stress, those raising an autistic child scored higher on resilience.
The Scientist · Science desk

What happened
- University of Kentucky research published in the journal Autism and led by Amanda Duncan found that families raising autistic children reported both greater stress and greater resilience than other families.
- Comparing families that reported similar levels of stress, the researchers found the families raising an autistic child were the more resilient of the two groups.
- Duncan and her co-author say earlier research on these families has often used smaller or more localized samples, or has run without any comparison group.
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Why it matters
- constraint Because the researchers report no causal test, nobody can use this to claim that raising an autistic child produces resilience, and the reverse ordering fits the same data.
- capability A national sample with a comparison group puts the strength measure on the same footing as the strain measure, a test localized samples could not run.
- decision Anyone writing intake or outcome forms for family services is now choosing whether to score a dimension the national survey already collects.
- exposure A strength finding in a high-stress population is easy for a payer to read as a reason to fund less, and the researchers put a caution against that reading into the announcement itself.
Resilience in this study means something concrete. Duncan's team locates it in the everyday ways families communicate, solve problems and adapt when something is not working [6]. A visual schedule taped up before school counts. So does a text with a quick plan before walking into a crowded store that might overwhelm a child [7].
The stress side is described as accumulation, built out of therapy appointments, school meetings, insurance calls, sleep problems and child care needs [18]. "So, the stress is not just one big event; it is often the constant mental load of planning ahead, adjusting in the moment and trying to make daily life work for everyone in the family," Duncan said [14].
"What these results found was that if you took two families, one raising a child with autism and one raising a child without autism, and both families were experiencing similar amounts of stress in their lives, the family raising a child with autism is going to be the more resilient family," Duncan said [4].
Both measures come from parents answering the National Survey of Children's Health, nationwide and post-COVID, representing more than 100,000 U.S. families [9]. Duncan and Shepley, who are both board-certified behavior analysts, note that earlier work on these families often used smaller or localized samples, or ran without a comparison group [8][10]. The release does not report how large the resilience difference was, or how many of the surveyed families are raising an autistic child [19].
Why the difference appears is open. The researchers say the study stopped short of explaining why, and offer practice as a candidate: families may develop skills associated with resilience through repeated opportunities to adapt and problem-solve [11]. "These families often have to adapt in real time," Duncan said [12].
Survey data from a single time point leaves that ordering open: families already skilled at adapting may also report more of the demands that call for adapting [11]. And both numbers come from the same parent in the same questionnaire [1]. A parent who describes a hard morning as teamwork can raise the stress score and the resilience score at once.
The national survey these authors used records both the strain and the strength [1][9]. "This helps us see both the strain and the strength in these families at the same time," Duncan said [3].
The release's closing section is headed "Resilience is not relief," and the researchers caution against reading the findings as evidence that the strain has been offset [15]. Parents in this literature also describe personal growth, becoming more patient, more grounded, more confident in advocating for their child [17]. "Resilience is not about having a perfect or stress-free family life; it is about how families keep adapting together," Duncan said [5].
What to watch
- Whether the published paper in Autism reports effect sizes and the number of families in the autism subgroup.
- Whether follow-up work uses repeated measures on the same families to test the adaptation-through-repetition explanation.
- Whether family-service intake and outcome forms start scoring a resilience measure alongside strain.